The other day when I was outing with good friends, we were talking about having a male friend as a best friend. I suddenly remember someone that I’ve been neglected for quite some time. I lost contact with him when my previous hand phone was stolen last year. To maintain a good relationship with him, I always wish him on his birthday and catching up once in a while.
I never realized that he was such a good friend of mine until we girls talked about this. I can talk to him almost about anything. He’s such a good listener and he agreed to accompany me whenever I need someone to be with me. I would even recommended him if my friends wanted to have a male friend as their best friend.
I don’t know much about him. Because… every time we meet, I am the one who talk. Sigh! What a shame. It is because am comfortable with him. He does not talk much so it’s me who has to do the talking rite? Rite.
I used to ask him to accompany me during the activity that was organised by my previous company. Ah… I couldn’t recall what the activity is. It was Sunday morning (say 7.00 am) at Taman Tasik Titiwangsa. While having discussion with former colleagues, I often glanced at him to see if he’s okay and comfortable with the environment. I brought him to the event so I must make sure that he’s been treated nicely.
The next day, I ask one of my colleagues, how’s he’s doing? She said, he was okay and even makes the effort to approach her and started the conversation. My oh my, I was pleased to hear that considering I have been abandoned him for some time due to my involvement with the event throughout the day.
He would be there, anywhere and anytime to give full support to me. Shame on me, I couldn’t give that kind of commitment to my best friends.
If you wonder if I ever has feeling for this guy… am not quite sure. I never think of taking our friendship to the next level. I don’t know if he still remembers me. Well, I hope he does.
Today is his special day. Today is his birthday. I don’t have his contact number so I can’t wish him directly. So, through this blog, I would like to wish him Happy Birthday, A. Thank you for being a wonderful friend of mine. I am lucky to know you. Even if this dedication may not reach you, but I know that our God can hear my prayers. I always pray for you every time I think about you especially on your big day.
P/S: I also pray that one day my girls would find a best friend like him. I shall introduce him to my girls if we get connected again.
